Sheyi Akintoye

I often get carried away and excited by listings of tour packages, especially when it appears to be a ''fair deal". Yeah, it happens to the best of us. You are not alone. Tour companies often come up with various mouth watering deals, and I have learnt overtime that it’s not just about looking for a great tour, but about getting one that’s ''right for me''. This involves engaging in active research because as a fun loving single in her late twenties, there’s a slim chance that I would enjoy the same tour as a couple in their 60’s. Although, I will have access to some nuggets of wisdom, but will I be achieving the purpose of my trip? Some decisions are just yours to make, and you can start by asking yourself these important questions: 1. What sort of group tour is being proposed?      In my teens, when a group tour is mentioned, what comes to mind is an excursion on a bus,   which was mostly educational tours. There are othe...

Creatives get in here! I found you an amazing spot. You have to think outside the box for this one! Its perfect for music videos, vintage, team bonding, fairy-tale, train themed shoots and events. Pump Trolley A.K.A  Olomo Kuya (Burdened parenting) I discovered this secret location whilst researching new locations for an upcoming event, and guess what? turns out it's a mini museum with a secret garden. Just perfect!     My new find "The Jaekel House" is a two storey restored colonial mansion turned mini Museum, which originally housed the General Manager of The Nigerian Railway Corporation, before it was later converted to a rest house for the railway senior staff. However, its now been managed by Legacy 1995; a Non-Governmental Organisation.    The classic colonial architecture is situated at Ebute Metta, and was built in 1898. It was named after a former superintendent of the Nigeria...

All covered up in the UAE capital, where I saw one of the most talked about architectural work of art to behold.  An amazing sight with over 80 beautiful white marble domes on a roof-line, held aloft by 1000 pillars and punctuated by four 107m-high minarets.  The Sheikh Zayed Mosque in Abu Dhabi is a masterpiece of modern architectural design. T he grand Mosque houses the world’s largest 24 carat gold chandelier and the world's largest hand-knotted carpet.  The ambience, pool and floral designs are just picture perfect.  Non muslims are accommodated. But with strict rules; Men must cover their knees, while women are expected to cover their arms, legs and hair.  Ladies who  aren’t up to standard are given abaya’s at no cost. However, you are required to return it after the tour. The grand mosque is the most serene place I have ever seen. The crowd control and security is top notch. Despite the large number of tourists, I ...

Apparently, Nigeria seems to be going through the E this and E that phase now. lol.  Honestly, I don’t mean to sound pessimistic or sarcastic. I believe it is a good development, which shows we are getting more technologically inclined. However, the processes and manpower involved has a way of frustrating you.  I believe it’s common knowledge that nothing in Nigeria comes easy, especially if it involves processes. Your patience would be tested every step of the way. Although, there are usually easy peasy options from time to time. Craving one? You should condition your mind to partake in the corruption “you think” you are against by patronising louts in corporate clothing. They usually promise to ensure a less strenuous experience. But if you are like me; with your integrity still intact, I can tell you for a fact that : The E yellow card is another system created to frustrate you. I believe my account of the process will ease the stress.  ...

3 decades in another 2 years. Wow. Super excited. Weird right? Who rejoices at the thought of getting older. lol.  Okay, j ust before the big 30, now is a great time to reflect on the last 28 years on planet Earth!  Over the years, I have been more intentional and there has been tons of unlearning and relearning. So there's quite a lot to share. However, we would stick to 28 because it's a special day. The Last 28 years flashed before me whilst I was meditating. I have gone through positive and negative emotions which has impacted me in several ways, and I can only get wiser.  This isn’t an exhaustive list of what you should do. Pick what rocks your boat! Time really does fly. So do what you must. Leave no stones unturned and live with no  regrets. Don’t take your quiet time for granted.  It’s your opportunity to build strength. Set aside 10 minutes daily. Enjoy your teenage years. Don’t go all crazy tho. Learn a new skill, Eat all you want, burn...